Our relationship works…

The lack of serious commitment, respectfully more than friends with benefits, no strings attached relationship we have works VERY well for the both of us, and it works for a lot of reasons. The last time I wrote, I said that I would tell you exactly why you should never worry about having to erase yourself from my life. I’ve been super busy (as usual ;)), but I’ve finally had time to sit down and give it a little thought…

You were impressive in your initial email to me. I’m not sure how long you had been watching me, but it was very clear that you had done your homework. You were very thorough while remaining respectful and discreet, and I immediately recognized you as someone who was looking to build a personal relationship verses someone shopping for a service or commodity. You never complained about my screening methods and willingly shared the information I requested. The first time we met, you allowed paced yourself and allowed our natural chemistry a chance to develop beyond what had been established in our virtual communication. The resukts? Sparks flew, just as we knew they would.

Since then, you have remained consistent in who you are. You’re very good company. You are always prompt and well-groomed. You’re always polite, and I can undoubtedly rely on your unwavering discretion, even when we are not physically together. You always pay correctly (sometimes going beyond my listed standards <3), and you have never haggled me where my rates are concerned. You respect my time by doing your best to never have to break an arrangement (although we both know and understand that sometimes, this simply cannot be avoided), and if you ever have to, it’s done so in a timely and graceful fashion. You don’t make things awkward by attempting to linger when our time has come to an end. You understand that I am only yours for a brief moment, and that we both have lives outside of escaping our realities. You never overwhelm me with endless emails/phone calls/texts, and if you have no problem finding ways to show me how much our relationship means to you, even from afar. You respect whatever boundaries I have put in place by not attempting to push them, and you don’t find ways to probe my life so that you can “get to know the *real* me”… You understand that I have reasons for structuring my life the way I have, and you genuinely appreciate the fact that you get to experience a small piece of it in this way…

In short, *you* don’t have anything to worry about. You understand, accept, and appreciate the nature of what we have, and you above and beyond in ensuring that our connection is just as beneficial for me as it is for you. But, MOST of all, you’ve shown me time and time again just how much you respect me as a person and how much you value the personal relationship that we, together, have built. I promise, I won’t be nudging you out anytime soon…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

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If there’s one thing you know about me…

It’s that I am *huge* on first impressions. An appropriate first impression is very important to me because it sets the tone for the relationship you will have with someone, regardless of its nature. One of the most annoying things one can experience is mistakenly setting a ‘bad’ impression. Setting a bad impression can happen for a number of reasons, many of them being things that are somewhat out of ones control. Because of this, although it’s not always so easy, it *is* possible to change someone’s impression of you when you’ve left them with negative feelings. One *can*, however, turn someone’s positive feelings about them into long lasting negative ones very, *very* quickly…

I am unbelievably easy to get along with, and my energy is calm and laid back. I’ve always been a pretty good judge of character, and I have an acute awareness when it comes to deciphering the motives and intentions of others. So, when I’m faced with a situation where someone has done or said something to change my existing impression of them, things can get… complicated. I’m not referring to doing or saying something that is not within what I have come to know as someone’s ‘norm’… I’m talking about doing or saying something that is offensive to me as a person. Things like blatant disrespect, boundary crossing, attempting to take advantage of me just to name a few… I firmly believe that when people show you who they are, you should believe them. But, I am honestly one of the least confrontational people one will ever come across. So, when things like this happen, I have a tendency to slowly withdraw from the relationship, no matter what it’s nature of origin is. My serious dislike of confrontational situations has driven me to perfect my curving methods, and I’m great at sending tactfully crafted messages without literally spelling it out. I’ve never had an issue making someone erase themselves from my life when I want them to fade away. But, that’s not something you’d ever have to worry about…

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and, I’ll tell you exactly why the next time I write…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

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*Blushing*

As you know, it’s very easy to make me blush. Compliments, lingering stares, light strokes of the fingertip going up and down my arm… It doesn’t take much at all. But, when I look at the textbook definition of the word, it conveys everything that you DON’T make me feel when blushing. When you make me blush, it’s not because I’m feeling modest, confused or embarrassed. Why WOULD I be? My personality is genuine, which makes me conveniently easy to read, and my world experience makes me extremely relatable on many fronts. I’m intelligent, charming, and have an infectious sense of humor. To top it all off, I’m gorgeous and overwhelmingly sensual… Trust me… I know exactly how amazing I am. So, all of these negative things associated with the act of blushing are completely foreign to me. When I do it, it’s because I’m flooded with an array of positive feelings. I had to explain this to my photographer when she made me blush during our session while we were shooting the first scene (which happened to be in a beautiful sunroom with tons of natural light flooding in). “Your skin is just GLOWING in this sunlight, absolutely stunning!”, she exclaimed as she snapped away…

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I must say that I do agree with her. That compliment made me blush, and when she asked why, I told her. My natural skin tone is one of the things I love most about myself, and I, too, love the way I seem to radiate a golden glow when standing in the sun. I told her that I usually blush when someone says or does something that echoes my own sentiments. Once I satisfied her curiosity about my blushing, it gave her a new understanding. She kicked the flattery up a notch, and the increased intensity can be seen the final product…

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Of course, you know how much I love foreplay. So, I’ll be teasing you with tidbits here and there, dropping Chocolate Kisses along the way for you. But, I think I’m going to save my favorite photos for exclusive release on my Virtual Seduction platform as a Goody Bag. I’ll be sure to keep you updated on all of that and much more. I just thought I’d give you a friendly reminder that making me blush only means that you’re intensifying how I already feel about myself. The more intense things are… Well… you know… don’t you? 😉

Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

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Virtual Seduction: *A LATE POST*

But, what’s new? 😉 Besides, better late than never… right? 🙂 Like always, I’ve been super busy. A little of ‘this,’ a lot of ‘that,’ and a dash of ‘some other stuff,’ lol. You know me… Just flying by the seat of my pants as usual… But, I do have a few exciting things to share!

In my last blog post, I spoke about incorporating a new platform that would allow you to interact and converse with me one on one in a more intimate fashion while maintaining discretion on both ends. Well, after a lot of tinkering with codes and weeks of back and forth with the site administrators for about what is and isn’t deemed “vulgar” or “explicitly nude” (apparently my derriere in a thong is too racy for a sex site… *eye roll*), my profile and chat lines have been approved. Finally, I am ready to invite you into my world of “Virtual Seduction”… Please follow along as I give you the details about how we’ll be connecting, even when we can’t quite… connect…

Reasons you may want to chat with me:

1.) We’ve met before, and you’d love to catch up with one another.

2.) You’re on the fence about meeting me and would like to get to know me personally before making the decision we both know you’re going to make anyway. 😉

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Reasons to call me if you’re feeling… naughty:

1.) If we’ve met before, there’s no need for me to say more…

2.) You’re on the fence about meeting me and would like to get to know me personally before making the decision we both know you’re going to make anyway. 😉

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Reasons to slide down the sinfully slippery slope of your Sensual Chocolate Girlfriend:

*PLEASE READ THE DESCRIPTION CAREFULLY*

If this is for you… you know who you are.

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Along with my phone and cam lines, I will be releasing unseen photo sets from my professional shoots to this site exclusively (I’m sure you understand that my face will be obscured for obvious reasons of discretion). I also spoke in my last blog post about the fact that I’m still quite aloof when it comes to posting on my Twitter timeline as well. I used to post tons of hot selfies, but I’ve shied away from that for a number of reasons. Fortunately, I MAY have found a solution to that. I still have to do more research on it. So, if there’s nothing to tell, I won’t mention it again. If there IS, I promise not to make you wait a whole month for another update. *pinky promise*

I also now have an official spoiling space! That’s right, the Lovely Lady has FINALLY gotten with the times and created a wishlist, lol. I’m so sorry that it’s taken me so long to take the awkward guessing out of the equation, but I’ve never really been big on gifts. Seriously, for as far back as I can remember, the most exciting gifts at my birthday parties were the ones that fell out of the cards when I opened them, LOL. Well, I seem to have found a solution that will work for both of us. The DeliveryCode wishlist platform works in a number of ways and is perfect for a multitude of reasons. First of all, they are SEX WORKER FRIENDLY! So, I don’t have to worry about my wishlist getting shut down (BOO to Amazon!), my real name/shipping information remain a secret to you, and your sensitive information remains a secret to me as well. Also, DeliveryCode has a gift voucher option which let’s you send a cash gift if you prefer in lieu of choosing something from the wishlist itself.

In other ‘Elle News,’ I’m super excited about an upcoming photo shoot next week. I’ll be working with a new photographer, and from the looks of her portfolio, I have no doubt that I will walk away completely satisfied. In shopping, I decided to mix it up and include a lot of Summer colors. I’m very happy with my choices, and I’m certain you’ll be just a pleased with how the colors compliment my naturally chocolate glow…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover,

Elle

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I’m hiding in plain sight…

… but, you already know that… 😉

It’s been forever since I updated here (almost 2 years)… I know.  This year has been super busy, and life has taken a few turns since my last update. But, all in a very, VERY good way. A brief game of ‘catch up’ if I may?

2014 lived up to being “The Year of the Friend,” and I wouldn’t have had it any other way. But, 2015 was much different. It was full of surprises and life changing events not only for myself, but those closest to me as well. I basically stayed put in Indiana the entire year, only traveling when I found it absolutely necessary (which was NOT often). In doing so, 2015 was inadvertently turned into “The Year of the Family.” The Holidays were filled with food, laughter, and fun. But, surprisingly enough, the New Year was welcomed in a calm and quiet fashion. I had no desire to throw/attend a lavish New Year’s bash. I didn’t feel like rubbing shoulders with strangers while counting/screaming down to the New Year with friends in a nightclub. What I DID want to do was watch fireworks with my loved ones… and that’s exactly what we did… Camped out on my balcony with a blanket and a couple of bottles of champagne, we watched the fireworks light up an already starry sky. Even though I almost froze my pretty little ASS off, it was the best New Year’s celebration to date.

Now, here we are well into 2016. I hope this year has been as amazing for you as it has been for me. I know that you check in on me regularly, daily even. While I do truly enjoy keeping you up to date on what’s happening in my life when we aren’t together, there are many reasons that I doubt I will ever be able to blog with the consistency that I did when I first began. You know very well that I am a woman who wears many hats. As I continue to diversify myself, I find that my plate is almost always full. I simply do not have the time to keep up here the way I used to. Also to be considered is the fact that I am currently in a situation where I am paid to write. This has led to a heightened level of public visibility, and I am sometimes consumed by a fear of revealing something in a blog that would cause the two worlds to collide. This part of my life is not something that those who I am now visible to would be pleased to know find out about. Unfortunately, our society is not yet in a place where being a paid companion is an acceptable form of dating. The energy that I must put into my outside endeavors coupled along with my paranoia often result in me being overcome by writer’s block when it comes to my personal blog. I won’t tell you how many unfinished drafts I have saved from the past 2 years because it really is embarrassing (twenty-two).

Nowadays, my twitter (@Lovelyelle85) is where you will find a more accurate depiction of what’s currently happening in my life (that may or may not have something to do with the 140 character limit). But, even my timeline is aloof, mostly composed of tweets about current and future travel plans with a few candid pics thrown in here and there. With all things considered, what I am most thankful for is the fact that you have not taken my literary absence personally. But, that does not mean that I have not heard your pleas. So, inspired by you and your emails, I am currently exploring the idea of incorporating a new platform into my business model that will allow you to interact and converse with me one on one in a more intimate fashion while maintaining discretion on both ends. I’m not exactly sure how I am going to approach this as I have absolutely zero experience with a platform like this. My only knowledge is that it comes highly recommended by someone who’s opinion/advice I value dearly. Her wisdom and experience have yet steer me wrong. I am still in the research and setup phase, but my hope is to be ready to present the option of this platform to you within the next couple of weeks. While there may be a bit of trial and error to find what works best for the BOTH of us, I’m excited at the possibilities and hope that you are, too…

In other “Elle News”, I gained a little weight and now clock in at a whopping 145 lbs… I mean, out of nowhere appears this extra weight, and it’s all tacked onto my lovely ass. If you think I was perfection before… just wait until you see me NOW. Don’t believe me? I have new pictures which seem to support my theory…

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As HOT as this photo is, I know that giving an informed opinion can be a bit tricky when you’re restricted to a computer screen. So, be sure to check my schedule often. You never know when I may decide to report to your city. You don’t want to miss the chance to perform a face to face inspection, now, do you? 😉

Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover,

Elle

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“Elle, where have you disappeared to…?”

Here, there, a little of everywhere… I’ve been very quiet, but I’ve been around…

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Be on the look out for travel dates to appear on My calendar here and also on My website within the next week. I may be coming soon to a city near YOU…

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Until later, My Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

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A truly authentic individual is such a rare find…

“Often misconstrued, authenticity is not about being an open book, revealing every detail of yourself without rhyme or reason. It is simply the act of openly and courageously seeing what needs to be seen, saying what needs to be said, doing what needs to be done, and becoming that which you are intent on being.” 
― Scott Edmund Miller

I have always been in tune with my individuality. I’m not merely speaking about the way I choose to dress or the type of music I listen to. I am referring to being in tune with who I am as a unique individual and being comfortable with myself. I have never felt the need to follow the crowd, and I make decisions based on what I think will be best for myself as an individual. No one else can live my life for me, so why should I let the opinions of others dictate the path I will travel? It always baffles me when someone makes critical decisions based on the actions of those around them. I cannot count how many ladies I watched walk into the hair salon begging the stylist to fix their mane 6 months after the “Let’s completely shave one side of our head” craze had died down, and that’s only a MILD example.

People who are not truly comfortable with themselves have a difficult time understanding their individuality and have a tendency to overly criticize other people. When they see others living their authentic selves, it drives them crazy that they have not lived out their own. Organic expression is a foreign concept as they usually look to others when deciding how to “be”. Individuals who are realized in their own lives almost never criticize others. If they speak at all, it is to offer encouragement. As individuals, every person has a specific skill. Whether it is discovered or not, it more readily and naturally comes to them than it would to another. It should be sought and polished on a personal level. More often than not, people get caught up in the pursuit of originality. Whatever it may be, we excel best in our niche. Originality loses its authenticity in one’s efforts to obtain it. 

I do not see the point in dressing, acting, or speaking in a way that makes others feel more comfortable and me feel less comfortable. People will hate and love you for the exact same reasons. This is all the proof I need that my opinion about myself is the only opinion I should ever care about. There are too many people who love me, accept me, never try and change me, and don’t condemn me in the slightest for me to waste even one moment of my life worrying about what “other people” will think. I have never been one to live under a false pretense, and that will never change. Besides, there is nothing more refreshing than getting to know someone and coming to the realization that they are truly who and what they initially portrayed themselves to be…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

P.S. Please excuse the grainy appearance of the above photo. I have discovered that my laptop camera isn’t of the best quality, but I thought you’d appreciate the picture anyway. 🙂

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Elle… In a Cinquain

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Whimsical, Sensuous

Moaning, writhing, culminating

Pure, unadulterated carnal awakenings…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

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My Best Friend…

… has a knack for challenging me to be a better person. For that, I am eternally grateful…

I hope your New Year is off to a great start. Once the Holidays were over, I realized I was slightly burnt out. I didn’t know that playing hostess for  couple of weeks would be so tiring! Once my family left, I got busy getting myself prepared for some serious R&R. Even though I barely made it out of here because of the huge snowstorm that came this way, I had the time of my life while on vacation in Arizona. I thought I would get there and spend my days relaxing at the resort and getting pampered at the spa. But, the view landing into Arizona was soooooo beautiful that I couldn’t sit still once I arrived! I went horseback riding from the desert up into the mountains. I captured gorgeous panoramic views of the skyline while enjoying the crisp chill of the desert from 10,000 feet in a hot air balloon. I capped my trip off with a private plane tour that whisked me over the Tonto National Forest, through the Red Rock formations of Sedona, past the San Francisco Peaks, and over the Painted Desert and Navajo Indian Reservation before finally arriving at the Grand Canyon. Arizona was more beautiful than I could have imagined. The free time I had was spent driving to different parks in hopes of capturing some really cool pictures. I did this for a whole day before I realized that the best shots were captured whenever I got the urge to pull over and shoot from the shoulder of the highway. I left feeling more rejuvenated than I have felt in months. Although I never got a chance to relax by the pool or get a massage at the spa, I don’t think I could have used my time more wisely. It’s not often that my schedule allows me the freedom to take a real vacation, and I was determined to get the most out of the experience. There’s always time for resorts and spas, right? 😉

In other “Elle News”, 2014 is proving to be a busy year already. It’s actually moving pretty fast for for me, and we’re barely halfway through the month. I’m experiencing new levels of success in many areas of my life, and I feel very blessed to be surrounded by people who motivate, encourage, and support me. It’s a given that most people have some sort of familial support system, and having the support of friends does wonders for the soul. But, there’s something about a BEST friend. What a BEST friend thinks and feels is often given the same care and respect (if not MORE) as one’s siblings. Sometimes, we take our friendships for granted. It’s all too easy to forget that a friendship is just like any other loving relationship in the fact that it needs care. Relationships are like flowers. The Cuban Buttercup may not need watering as much as the Angel Trumpet. But, that doesn’t mean that buttercups don’t need a dose of TLC every now and then. Although it had NOTHING to do with our friendship specifically, I was recently reminded of this during a conversation my best friend in the whole world, and it made me think… Have I been a selfish friend?

I’m always talking about how there aren’t enough hours in a day and about how important it is to make time for the things you care about. I’ve never been one to make New Year’s resolutions, and this year is no different. I HAVE, however, made the decision to spend more time bonding with my friends, ESPECIALLY my best friend. We both know how I feel about my family, and I always make time for them. But, when it comes to my friends, I must admit that I have a tendency to simply fit them in with/around the time that I make sure to spend with my family. I’ve never really thought of it as selfish before because honestly, my friends ARE a part of my family. Even though I am the link, they have their own separate relationships. But, in speaking about friendship with my best friend, I began to wonder if I wasn’t putting as much effort as I had thought into the meaningful relationships in my life. No one has ever accused me of being a selfish or bad friend in any sense. In fact, my friendship has only been praised through the years. Therefore, I think it’ safe to assume that my friends know that everything I do comes from genuine place. But, just because no one has ever called me out on being a bad friend doesn’t mean there’s not room for improvement. Who waits to be told to do a better job once they realize on their own that their best could be so much better?

So, 2014 is officially “The Year of the Friend”. The only one who lives remotely close is my BEST friend (how convenient, right?), so I’ll probably be traveling more to get in some much needed quality time. But, I DEFINITELY won’t be visiting anyone until this snowy season passes, lol. Unfortunately, all of that awesome weather from the deserts of Arizona wouldn’t fit into my suitcase…

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Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

P.S. Happy New Year, sweetheart…

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I hope your Christmas was as merry as mine…

My home was filled with love, happiness, family, and a TON of gifts and food. Dinner turned out perfect, and my family members thoroughly enjoyed their time here. In short, I got everything that I had no idea I even wanted and so much more. I could not have dreamed of a better Christmas…

In other “Elle News”, I have decided to finally unlock my Twitter profile. I love, love, LOVE the way my blog enables me to keep you updated with what’s currently happening in my life. But, my busy schedule makes it impossible to blog as much as I’d like to. When I first joined Twitter, it was almost pointless to me. Over the last few months, however, I’ve noticed that it’s become more useful. During the breaks between blog posts, I tend to become very active on Twitter and even post candid photos here and there. I’ve almost mastered the art of communicating my thoughts in 140 characters or less, lol. So, I’m making my account public for two reasons. First, I’m going to integrate my Twitter feed into the sidebar of my blog. Second, and most importantly, I’m unlocking my account so that you won’t feel pressured to actually join Twitter just to have access to a timeline that is merely an extension of my public blog. I mean, I have nothing to hide. Besides, we both know where all of the juicy secrets are hidden…

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Right? 😉

Until later, my Little Chocolate Lover…

Elle

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